Menu Plan Monday - Shopping List is Back!


Written on May 12, 2008 – 2:26 am | by PlanningQueen

This week I am still taking inspiration from the vegetables in season this month, so more soup and more lovely veggies! I am settling into the new look and functionlaity of WordPress 2.5.1 and have included my shopping list at the end of the post. I now have to go back in the archives and add links to shopping lists and recipes in previous MPM posts which I will do tomorrow.

Monday: Lamb Chops, Potato AuGratin with seasonal vegetables

Tuesday: Baked Penne with Bacon

Wednesday: Chicken and Creamed Vegetable Soup

Thursday: Sausage and Vegetables

Friday: Left Overs

Saturday: Margherita Pizzas

Sunday: Pasta Bake

Shopping List for Menu Plan 12 May 2008

Carrot Cake

Again, I have included the shopping list for this week’s menu plan as an excel file. The below paragraphs explain what is in the attached excel file below.

It contains three separate spreadsheets. The first is named “Complete Grocery’ and it lists by supermarket aisle all the ingredients that are needed to cook the family meals for this week.

The second spreadsheet is named “Ingredient By Meal’ and it lists the ingredients that are required for the family by each individual meal this week. I have also left on the aisle and aisle subsection in this spreadsheet for reference, but if you want to print that out you will need to alter the print area.

The third spreadsheet is named “Menu Plan” and is a modified version of the menu plan that I print and place on the fridge. I have a notes section, that I like to populate with any activities that are likely to impact the evening meal routine.

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For more menu planning ideas head on over to Laura’s place at “I’m an Organizing Junkie“.

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What Is Mum’s Work Worth?


Written on May 11, 2008 – 12:43 pm | by PlanningQueen

Firstly Happy Mother’s Day! I have had a wonderful morning so far and hope you have too. This year my birthday actually falls on Mother’s Day so I have been doubly spoilt.

If you have ever wondered how much you might earn, if being a mother was a paid job, go to Salary.com and use their Mom Salary Wizard.

Now I don’t really believe that you could ever put a true financial figure on mothering as there is so many subjective factors involved, not to mention the personal satisfaction and unconditional love that come as part of the job. But it is a bit of fun to calculate what your “mum work” would be worth in terms of market value.

According to Salary.Com the average stay at home mother would earn $124,000 ($US117,000) a year. They calculate the figures using the number of children in different age groups, paid work status and using 10 job titles that contain duties that a mum typically performs.

NB. There is also a Dad Salary Wizard as well.

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Free E-book - Planning With Kids Top 100 Tips, Volume 1


Written on May 9, 2008 – 8:56 am | by PlanningQueen

Firstly, apologies for my absence and if you have had difficulty accessing the site over the last week! I could write a diatribe here on the disaster that was my change in servers, but I am too excited about my e-book to want to spend time on negativity. Fingers crossed all is finally sorted on the technical front and I thank you for your patience and support over this time.

100th Post
To celebrate my 100th post, which is today, I have compiled 10 lists of 10 tips aimed at making family life simple and fun!

This e-book is the first collection of the most popular “10 Things” posts from Planning With Kids. These posts appeared on the blog between January and April 2008.

For each post I received feedback from readers and their thoughts on each topic. I have used this to improve the lists by adding some reader suggestions and removing some of my own points. To stick to only 10 points was a challenge some times, but I think you will find these lists helpful for organising yourself, managing the behavior of your children and having some fun together.

The e-book is splits into two different sections. The first gives you a one page print out of the list for that topic. I find it handy to have some of these lists strategically placed around the house for my reference.

The second section then details each point in the 10 point list and gives further tips, links and resources on that topic.

Planning With Kids Top 100 Tips

Topics included in the e-book are as follows:

1. 10 Things To Make Back To School Mornings Easier.
2. 10 Things We Do To Make Meal Time Enjoyable.
3. 10 Things I Like To Keep In My Everyday Bag.
4. 10 Circuit Breakers To Prevent Those Family Melt Down Moments!
5. 10 Strategies To Gain Co-Operation From A Toddler.
6. 10 Preschooler Early Learning Activities You Can Plan Into Your Day.
7. 10 Things To Do With The Kids When It Is Hot!
8. 10 Point Children’s Birthday Party Plan.
9. 10 Children’s Birthday Presents With A Difference.
10. 10 Quick Ways to Feed Unexpected Lovely Visitors

Why an E-book?
Reformatting the posts in this manner makes it easier to read as a series and to have as a reference tool. It also means that you can send it to family and friends who have not yet started to explore the blogoshpere.

10 Things Continues
I continue to write a new “10 Things” list every Tuesday. Drop by Planning With Kids again to see what the latest topics are.

I hope that you these lists are a useful tool for your family. I welcome any feedback either in the comments section here or via email to planningqueen [at] bigpond [dot] com .

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Menu Plan Monday - Seasonal Fruit and Vegetables for May


Written on May 4, 2008 – 11:01 pm | by PlanningQueen

It is the start of a new month, so time to receive some inspiration for meals by which vegetables and fruit are in season.

The following fruits and vegetables listed below are at their best and cheapest this month in Victoria, Australia. These lists are for Australia, but if you live in the UK you can see what’s in season at Eat the Seasons UK and for North America Eat the Seasons US.

Fruits:
Apple, Banana, Grapefruit, Grapes, Kiwifruit, Watermelon, Figs, Lemon, Persimmons

Vegetables:
Beanshoots, Broccoli, Carrot, Cauliflower, Mushrooms, Potato, Pumpkin, Spring onion, Turnip

Taking inspiration from the vegetables in season, there will be a few soups and casseroles over the month of May! We also had the opportunity to buy locally grown pumpkins cheaply when we were in Mildura, which is always a bonus!

Monday: Spaghetti Bolognaise
Baking: Lemon Slice (Recipe Below)

Tuesday: Pumpkin Soup

Wednesday: Chicken Schnitzel and Vegetables

Thursday: Beef Stroganoff (Recipe Below)

Friday: Chicken Wings, Baked Potatoes and Corn on the cob

Saturday: Left Overs

Sunday: Tacos

Again, I have included the shopping list for this week’s menu plan as an excel file. The below paragraphs explain what is in the attached excel file below.

It contains three separate spreadsheets. The first is named “Complete Grocery’ and it lists by supermarket aisle all the ingredients that are needed to cook the family meals for this week.

The second spreadsheet is named “Ingredient By Meal’ and it lists the ingredients that are required for the family by each individual meal this week. I have also left on the aisle and aisle subsection in this spreadsheet for reference, but if you want to print that out you will need to alter the print area.

The third spreadsheet is named “Menu Plan” and is a modified version of the menu plan that I print and place on the fridge. I have a notes section, that I like to populate with any activities that are likely to impact the evening meal routine.

Shopping Lists

Any seasonally influenced meals in your family menu plan?

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For more menu planning ideas head on over to Laura’s place at “I’m an Organizing Junkie“.

Beef Stroganoff (Slow Cooker Version)

Ingredients:
500 grams diced beef
2 tablespoons plain flour
2 tablespoons olive oil
1.5 teaspoons minced garlic
2 large potatoes, cubed 1cm x 1cm
3 large carrots, sliced thinly
1 cup beef stock
3 tablespoons tomato paste
300 mls sour cream

Instructions:

    (1). Toss the meat in flour. If the meat is in a plastic bag, I just add the flour to the bag and shake with some vigour.
    (2). Heat oil in frying pan and brown the meat.
    (3). Once browned, transfer meat to the slow cooker and then add all ingredients with the exception of the sour cream.
    (4). Place lid on and cook on Auto/Low for 8-10 hours or High for 4-5 hours.
    In the last 30 minutes add sour cream and stir in thoroughly.
    (5). Serve with rice or pasta.

Lemon Slice

There are many variations on how to make a lemon slice, but this is a very easy to make, child friendly recipe that I use.

Ingredients:
BASE
100 grams butter
approx ¾ can of condensed milk (this equates to 296.25 grams to be precise!)
1 teaspoon grated lemon rind
1 cup coconut
1 packet Marie biscuits

ICING
1 ½ cups icing sugar
¾ cup coconut
3 tablespoons lemon juice

Instructions:

    1. Crush biscuits until they are like a breadcrumb consistency. I put them in a plastic bag and crush using the wooden rolling pin and then pour into a medium sized bowl.
    2. Add coconut, and lemon rind to the biscuit mix.
    3. On a low heat melt butter and condensed milk.
    4. Pour the milk and butter into the biscuit mix.
    5. Press this mixture into a lined baking tray.
    6. Place into fridge for appox an hour (when in a jury, I have put it in the freezer for 15 minutes and this has also worked).
    7. To make the icing, mix all the ingredients together and then spread onto the set biscuit base. Refrigerate again until the icing has set.
    8. Once set cut the slice into fingers. Lemon slices keeps best in the fridge.

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A Newbie’s Lessons From Upgrading to Wordpress 2.5.1


Written on May 3, 2008 – 4:43 pm | by PlanningQueen

For some, the upgrade to WordPress 2.5.1 has gone very smoothly, but unfortunately for me it did not go as well as planned. This was due in large part to my inexperience and I thought it might help other new bloggers if I shared my lessons learnt:

(1). Allow plenty of time without distractions.
I followed the steps in the detailed instructions. In hindsight I should have allocated myself more child free time to do this. I started the process in a child free environment and then as things went wrong and took much longer than anticipated, I had to stop and get dinner for the kids!

(2). Back ups are golden.
To correct the problems I was having, I had no choice but to reload the blog to its original state and start over again. If I had not backed up properly, I shudder to think what would have happened.

(3). Check theme compatibility.
This was the major source of my problems. I should have checked out WordPress Codex for a list of files which were compatible.

(4). Get rid of old themes and plug ins before starting.
I had a number of plugins in my directory that I wasn’t using and one that I was which was particularly big. (4.6MB!!!!) I also had more than one theme in my WordPress files.

As a consequence, the upgrade process took much, much longer than it should have. Had the process been smooth, this probably would not have been an issue, but because I had to do the upgrade process a couple of times before all was well, I wasted a LOT of time.

(5). I love blogging.
While I was spending so much time on the technical side of things, I wasn’t doing the stuff really enjoy. I missed participating on the discussion in the comments section of my blog, I missed reading and commenting on other blogs and also putting more time into my posts. So if I haven’t responded to you recently, when I get back from Mildura on Sunday I will be going through these outstanding items.

(6). Bloggers at Aussie Bloggers are dead set legends
I would have not known what to do to get things going on the blog without the help and guidance from bloggers in the forum. A very big thank you to Anonymum and Sephyroth.

I have learnt a great deal from this experience and in a perverse way, happy to have done the upgrade and worked it out. Things are still not perfect and I have got one or two things to work out, so you will still see a change or too!

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April - Posts Of The Month


Written on May 2, 2008 – 12:55 am | by PlanningQueen

I am not going to mention that the last month went ridiculously fast and I can’t believe it is time for me to be writing this again! :)
Here are some posts that I enjoyed during the month of April:

PARENTING
The first two are from Lin at Telling It Like It Is. Lin writes on many contemporary issues and you will always find something thought provoking to read there.

A Child’s Ten Commandments For Parents
From the view of a child 10 simple things that we can do as a parent to enhance our relationship with them.

So Sexy, So Soon: The Sexualization of Childhood in Commercial Culture
How is “sexy” marketing hurting our children?

Kids and computers: is early exposure all that important?
One mum wonders if it is okay that her five year old is computer illiterate.

Myth Busting Momisms
Do you really have to wait an hour after eating to get in the swimming pool, or you’ll get a cramp and die?

The Two Year Old Treasures
Helpful tips on how to handle your precious two year old.

SOCIALLY MINDED
The Odd Disparity between Income and Quality of Life
An example of why increased wealth doesn’t always mean a better life.

Born to Buy: Nickelodeon and the Anti-Adult Bias
Discusses some of the messages our kids may receive through advertising.

Why not drink local?
Shedding some hope that the craze of bottle water is turning around.

Over investing in children
Are we producing a generation of over dependent children?

BLOGGING
Babyos
I think Kate has coined a phrase that will stick in this post. Every mum blogger will be able to relate to this.

Guest Post by Social Media Dad, Darren Rowse from ProBlogger
Problogger delivers 4 tips for social media toddlers.

Five Reasons Why Mom Blogs Are the Blogs to Watch
Cool to see recognition of the potential of mum bloggers being explored.

6 Ways That Bloggers are Like Rappers
Humorous comparison, that gives great insight into the life of a blogger.

5 Productivity Tips for Work at Home Moms
Tips that easily transfer across to mums blogging!

Organising My Emails
Inbox out of control? Guera has some fantastic tips about how to get in back under control.

Grab a cup of whatever is your preferred poison and enjoy some fantastic reads!

NB. I am playing around with the blog theme at the moment, as I was hurried into choosing a new one during the upgrade to WordPress 2.5.1 (my old theme was not compatible). You will see more changes over the next week. If you have any feedback along the way about the theme, I would be more than happy to hear from you!

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Planning Children’s Birthday Parties - Emergency Plan and Thank You Notes


Written on May 1, 2008 – 1:00 am | by PlanningQueen

This is Part 6, the final post in the Planning Children’s Birthday Series. Part 1 was a 10 Point Birthday Party Plan Check List. Part 2 focused on family strategy for birthday parties, party themes and birthday party invitations. Part 3 was centred around Guest and Food Lists. Part 4 detailed Party Activities and Accessories. Then last week I wrote about Party Week and Party Day Timetables.

The final items on my birthday party planning check list are as follows:

EMERGENCY PLAN
There are so many options as to where you can host a party for children and what activities you plan for them, depending on the time of year that their birthday is. I have learnt that it is always wise to have a Plan B up your sleeve, if you have dependencies on the weather.

I have mentioned before that for Little Rascal’s soccer party it ended up raining. And it wasn’t a short shower of light rain. It poured for pretty much the whole party. Luckily though kids are no where near as fickle as adults about a little thing like rain, so with Mr Infrastructure out there refereeing, the game went on. Well for at least 40 minutes, when the referee decided that was enough!

Plan A had been to play round robin games of soccer, lunch, then some soccer skills games, cake and home. We had checked out the forecast and could see rain on the horizon so Plan B was hopefully some soccer game time, musical statues (I downloaded top 40 music under directions from the kids, which they said was songs that “everyone at school liked”, even though they weren’t to my taste!), lunch, inside balloon games (teams keeping the balloon of the ground, popping balloon to receive the lolly etc), cake and home.

I was so relieved to have had a Plan B and the resources to implement it on the day of the birthday party, because with about 18 seven year old boys in the house, it could have ended up a bit wild.

THANK YOU NOTES
I have to admit that I have only started sending out thank you notes for children;s birthday parties since I moved to Surrey Hills. It wasn’t the norm amongst my inner city friends to do this, but in the eastern suburbs it appeared to be, so I have added the task to my birthday party planning check list.

As with the invitations I like to make my own, using the design of the invitation as a base and adding a group photo of the children taken at the party. Kids love to see photos of themselves.

We went to a smaller party earlier this year and through out the party the mother made sure that she took a photo of the birthday girl with every guest and then used this photo as the basis for the thank you card. It was even more lovely to have this keepsake as the family has now moved interstate.

Do you send out thank you notes? If so do you make them yourself?

Thank you to everyone who has left comments over the birthday party planning series. I now have some great new ideas on themes, food and activities for the next round of children’s birthdays in my house!

All the posts about birthday party planning have been linked back into the 10 Point Birthday Party Plan Check List, so you an click through the different tasks from the one spot.

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Upgrade Issues


Written on April 30, 2008 – 5:02 am | by PlanningQueen

Just a quick note to state the obvious: if you have tried to look at the Planning With Kids blog over the last couple of hours (wee hours of Wed morning), you will see I have hit a snag or two with the presentation of the blog.

Apologies for any inconvenience and please bear with me as I work on sorting then out.

Thanks Planning Queen!

From Little Things…….


Written on April 30, 2008 – 12:02 am | by PlanningQueen

This is a little bit off tangent from my standard posts on planning and all things kid related, but I think they are really important so wanted to share them with you. They are Australian based but generosity knows no geographical boundaries!!!!

FOR RECONCILIATION
GetUp is an independent, grass-roots community advocacy organisation giving everyday Australians opportunities to get involved and hold politicians accountable on important issues. They are currently running the Make This A Hit Campaign.

The song that they are trying to make a hit is a reworking of Paul Kelly’s From Little Things Big Things Grow and is inspired from the National Apology made by Prime Minister Kevin Rudd in February. The song features Paul Kelly, Kev Carmody, Urthboy, Missy Higgins, Mia Dyson, Radical Son, Jane Tyrell, Dan Sultan, Joel Wenitong. It also has voice grabs from Rudd’s speech adn former Prime Minister Paul Keating.

If you watched the Apology it will certainly touch you and I can recommend hitting their site and downloading it. It only costs $1.69 (but you can always donate more). They want to make this song number one on the Australian charts, keeping the momentum of reconciliation going.

It is currently at number four on the Aria Charts. Help them get it to number one by downloading the song. All proceeds from the sale of the song go to GetUp’s Reconciliation Fund and the following charity organisations:

Link Up - assisting Indigenous people who have been fostered, adopted or raised in institutions to find their way home.
Mums and Bubs Program in Townsville.
Australian Indigenous Mentoring Experience (AIME)

FOR THE HOMELESS
Mission Australia and realestate.com.au have partnered together Houses For The Homeless.

The aim of the campaign is to raise awareness of homelessness in Australia and also raise badly needed funds to help organisations who support the homeless. To contribute to the campaign, all you have to do is click on Houses For The Homeless and fill in a security code and then realestate.com.au will donate $1 to Mission Australia up to the value of $100,000. $1521 has been raised so far, click on the link and help raise more funds for the homeless.

Back to planning and kids tomorrow!

10 Indicators of School Readiness


Written on April 29, 2008 – 12:51 am | by PlanningQueen


School readiness is a widely discussed topic and it is something I am reviewing myself at the moment just to make sure that Possum will be indeed ready for school next year.

From the research that I have done, I have come up with a check list (love a list!!) which covers the key areas which can help determine whether or not a child is ready for school.

The indicators of school readiness can be broken down into five main areas (check out this power point presentation here for more details) and I have then chosen two key sub areas under this to create my check list.

PHYSICAL HEALTH AND WELL BEING
(1). Physical readiness for school.
Human Resources and Social Development Canada defines this as “possession of adequate levels of energy to enable the child to concentrate on school activities and the ability to resist common infections.”

(2). Age appropriate gross and fine motor skills.
Children are skilled at running, climbing and jumping.
Child can control a pencil and cut with scissors.

SOCIAL COMPETENCE
(3). Responsibility and Respect.
Child can listen to instructions and can carry them out independently.
Child can be aware of how their own behaviour impacts on others.

(4). Readiness to explore new things.
Self-confidence so that the child does not have to devote energy to defending against fear of failure and is willing to try new tasks. (Human Resources and Social Development Canada)

EMOTIONAL MATURITY
(5). Pro Social behaviour
Plays with other children and is able to take turns and engage in cooperative activities.
Child has basic peer relationships skills which can allow them to do things like enter a group of playing children.

(6). Ability to manage emotions.
Child can control own emotions, such as anger or frustration, in many situations with minimal adult assistance.
Child has some ability to stop and think before deciding how to act.

COMMUNICATION SKILLS AND GENERAL KNOWLEDGE
(7). Ability to clearly communicate one’s own needs and understand others.
To do this, the child must be able to:
- join simple sentences together to describe a past or present action or experience.
- hold a prolonged conversation and express ideas.

(8). Interest in general knowledge about the world.
Child has an understanding of his/her place in the world and has curiosity about the world around them.

LANGUAGE AND COGNITIVE DEVELOPMENT
(9). Basic Literacy
Children begin to understand that:
- a story has a beginning, a middle, and an end.
- language can be used symbolically to represent remote or even imaginary events.

(10). Basic Numeracy.
Child has an understanding of categorisation and can reliably sort by colour or shape.

Obviously if your child is attending preschool, the teacher will also be able to provide their expert view on the school readiness of your child.

Another great resource on school readiness is What’s the Hurry? by Kathy Walker. I found this book extremely helpful in making a decision on when to send my second son to school. Can you recommend any other resources that I can compile on the issue of school readiness?