10 School Holiday Activities To Do At Home

Last week I posted on 10 Children’s Activities For June/July School Holidays. There is always such an amazing amount of wonderful activities on offer in Melbourne. With that said however, I am mindful that during the school holidays, my kids need to rest. In particular my little girl who is in her first year of school.

As the end of a term comes, I find the kids are tired, which leads to them being more emotional and looking for a break from the morning school routines (so is mum :) ).

Again with this list of things to do at home, we would not do all the activities. During the school holidays my kids need less structured activities, allowing them time simply to wind down at their own pace and play/read etc but choose to spend their time doing what interests them.

It is also important that they do not become reliant upon me always providing entertainment for them. The oldest of our four children are all at ages where they are capable of finding ways to entertain themselves (3 year old may need some guidance at times though).

So our school holidays in June/July will be made up of a couple key outings, a couple of key projects/activities at home and plenty of time for the kids to relax and follow their own interests. So I manage to catch with friends I usually try an d combine the outings with friends, so that we still have plenty of down time for the kids to recharge before they head back to school.

1. Make Lemonade

A traditional favourite with my kids and in Australia lemons are in season in June and July, so even if you don’t have your own lemon tree, you can pick them up cheaply at the market.

If you are after some instructions for your little ones to follow, itty bitty love has a lovely photo tutorial.

2. Reverse Finger Painting

Reverse Finger Painting

Image by SquiggleMum

Hopefully for the water reserves in Melbourne there will be some rain over these school holidays. Rain however does usually mean being copped inside the house, so I loved this painting idea by Kate that SquiggleMum posted about earlier this month. As the paint is confined to the tray, there is much less mess than conventional painting, so easier to do inside the house.

3. Story Theatre

Story Theatre

Image by Red Bird Crafts

Red Bird Crafts has a beautiful tutorial on how to make your own story theatre. In the tutorial Emily uses cut out pictures, but you could just as easily let your child be the artist and have them draw the characters for their play.

4. Mandalas

Mandala For Children To Colour In

Inspired by the Mandala Post on Let’s Explore I bookmarked some sites that provide free mandala print outs for children to colour in. These would be perfect for the kids to colour in on a rainy day.

Mandala is the Sanskrit word for “sacred circle.” Native American, Hindu, and Buddhist Tantric practices have use Mandalas for thousands of years to express illuminated states of consciousness and for healing the body, mind, and spirit. Paper Mandalas

5. Chalk Drawing And Water Painting

We have a paved brick area at the back of our house. It provides a perfect large canvas for the kids to draw with chalk. We generally combine this activity with small buckets of water and large paintbrushes. They can then paint away the chalk if they wish, or paint the brick wall with water.

6. Camping Inside

My kids love camping and we don’t get to do it anywhere near as often as we would like. This holidays as we are not going away and it is in the middle of winter, we will have a camping night inside. We get out the sleeping bags, light the fire (which we rarely do) toast some marshmallows and sleep all the children can sleep together in the sitting room.

7. Giant Cardboard Construction

Cardboard Construction - School Holidays

Image by Filthy Wizardry

At Filthy Wizardry they show you how you can build an enormous cardboard rocket ship which as illustrated above is impressive! On the other hand you just allow for a more free form project. Collect boxes from markets, supermarkets etc and let the children’s imagination run wild

8. Make A Movie

The majority of the earlier activities are more suitable for children 6 and under. This activity and the next couple are aimed at those over six. Get the kids to write a script that they can then turn into a movie, using props, costumes what ever they can find! Having a Mac makes it then very easy to teach them how to edit it using iMovie.

9. Balloon Volleyball

Rig up some string across a room and allow the kids to play a game of balloon volley ball. This keeps my older boys amused for ages.

10. Cook A Meal

Allowing the kids to plan the meal, create a shopping list, make the selections at the supermarket and then cook a meal for the family.

What will your kids be up to at home?

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10 Children’s Activities For June/July School Holidays In Melbourne

Friday is the last day of Term 2 for Victorians. I for one am looking forward to the holidays. We are staying in Melbourne for the holidays, catching up with friends, going on some excursions and getting some rest!

Here are just some of the fantastic school holiday activities that Melbourne has to offer.

1. Puppet Lab

Puppet Lab Artplay

Image Artplay

Held at Artplay over the school holidays, professional puppeteers will perform and conduct workshops. Activities run from Saturday 4th July until Friday 10 July. These sessions book out quickly so if you are interested you should call Artplay on (03) 9664 7900 ASAP. Cost for these activities vary but range from free to $35.

EDIT: Artplay sessions book out incredibly quickly. I tried to book a session for August and it was already full, so if you are interested, I recommend booking ASAP.

2. Puppet Animation

More puppet action to coincide with Puppets at Fed Square, ACMI
has “kids in the studio - puppet animation”. These sessions are a great activity for the family to do together. In the free session children can create their own clay puppet to keep and animate their puppet’s story with stop motion animation and modern digital techniques.

It is recommended for children aged 5 to 13 and runs on the following dates:

  • Mon 29 Jun to Fri 3 Jul 2009
  • Mon 6 Jul to Fri 10 Jul 2009
  • Drop in any time between 12pm and 4pm.

3. Around The World To India.

The Immigration Museum Winter school holiday program runs from 27 Jun - 12 Jul 2009. Celebrate the mystique and wonder of India:

Be captivated by amazing stories of journeys to Australia. Pick up an Immigration Adventures booklet and explore the museum in a fun and engaging way.

Construct and decorate a shadow puppet depicting the Hindu gods, Hanuman (Monkey God) and Ganesh (Elephant god).

Dress up as a Hampi local or a visiting archaeologist. Parents: don’t forget to bring your camera!

Cost: Adults $8, Concessions and Children free entry and the Immigration Museum is open daily 10am – 5pm.

4. Footy Forum For Kids.

The Queen Victoria Market will be providing FREE opportunities for kids to meet, talk footy and have autographs signed by some of their favourite AFL Players.

Tuesday 30 June 2009, 11am to 12noon
Matthew Richardson and Player TBC*

Thursday 2 July 2009, 11am to 12noon
Players TBC*

Tuesday 7 July 2009, 11am to 12noon
Players TBC*

Thursday 9 July 2009, 11am to 12noon
Adam Cooney and Daniel Jackson

5. Junior Ranger COME and TRY.

Parks Victoria (PDF) is running school holiday activities from Monday 29 June – Friday 3 Jul at the Dandenong Ranges National Park.

This winter, come along and participate in the park’s Junior Ranger COME and TRY…holiday program of free, fun filled and informative activities. The forest in winter, often cloaked with cool damp fog, becomes a place of mystery and magic and we look forward to seeing you there.

This is a free activities but bookings are required and can be made by calling Parks Victoria on 03 9757 7724.

6. The Melbourne Magic Festival.

Melbourne Magic Festival

Image Melbourne Magic Festival

The Melbourne Magic Festival runs from June 29 until July 11 at the Northcote Town Hall. They are offering a range of kids (and adult) workshops in the art of magic. Tickets for sessions are only $12 per child and are on sale at Northcote Town Hall and (03) 9481 9500.

7. Sewing and Craft Sessions.

The Thread Den is located in Errol St North Melbourne. Classes cost between $30 - $60 per child.

The kids school holiday program will return for two great weeks of sewing and craft, with classes suitable for children and teens. Led by local designers and craftspeople, this program has been coordinated with a focus on our responsibility to recycling and purchasing materials locally.

8. Circus Sports And Cue Sports.

The National Sports Museum will be running its school holiay program from Monday June 29 - Friday July 3 and Monday July 6 - Friday July 10.

Juggle, spin, balance- experience the thrills and spills of our ‘circus skills’ workshop when the circus comes to the National Sports Museum during the school holidays.

Learn more about the ‘sport of courts’, discover the tricks with billiards world champion, Robby Foldvari and, back by popular demand, is Sam Starr for another round of fun and frivolity.

Kids of all ages can race against the clock in Game On – netball, Australian football, cricket, cycling and soccer – all this and much more in a ‘hands, feet and bottoms on’ interactive environment where you create your own sporting memories.

Further details of the sessions will be updated on The National Sports Museum Website closer to the date. NSM is open 10.00am – 5.00pm daily and it is $7.50 for adults, $4.00 for kids aged 5 -15 and under 5’s are free.

9. Art Sparks

NGV International’sSalavadar Dali Art Spark sessions for the June/July school holidays will be related to the Salvador Dali Liquid Desire exhibition. Session run Mon 29 Jun – Fri 10 Jul from 10.30am–4pm.

Kids can become artists like Dalí when they join in the special art activities in the NGV Dalí Kids Space. Parent/carer supervision required.

The cost of the art activity is free, but the Dali exhibition itself is not, entry prices for the exhibition are as follows:
Adult: $23
Concession: $18
Child: $11 (ages 5-15)
Family (2 adults + 3 children): $60
NGV Member Adult: $16
NGV Member Family: $40

10. Fairy Park.

Fairy Park

Image Fairy Park

Fairy Park is an 1 hour drive from Melbourne CBD. I haven’t been here nor do I know any one who has, so if you have been, I would love to hear your thoughts.

The park includes Fairy Tale Land, Model Trains, Summit Views and Camelot Playground. Cost of entry for the park is as follows:
Children under the age of 3 FREE
Children aged from 3 to 13 years $8.00
Adult prices from 14 years and over $16.00
Admission between 10 am to 4 pm.

The park includes Fairy Tale Land, Model Trains, SUmmit Views and Camelot Playground.

Enjoy the school holidays, what ever you are doing!

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10 Questions With The Kids

Porky Pig

I saw these questions on the blog Harmzie’s Way a little while a go. The idea is to ask a series of questions about yourself to the kids. The original by Harmzie has 22 questions. I did ask my kids the 22, but to fit in with my theme I opted for 10 questions and a bonus one because it was so funny. I have written the responses in age order 10, 8, 5 and 3. The baby just goo’s every time I talk to him, so he wasn’t included.

As much as I would have liked to have edited some of the answers, I resisted. After a bit the 3 year old went completely mad and was making very random comments (egged on by his siblings). Next time I would do him on his own.

1. What makes mum happy?

10: Sleeping.
8: Having us around.
5: Seeing dad and being at home
3: Not breaking the pencils.
Me: Pretty accurate, although breaking pencils is actually not that big of an issue in our house.

2. How does your mum make you laugh?

10: Saying toilet humor style jokes.
8: Saying pop offs
5: Spinning me around.
3: Does funny faces
Me: I have now been publicly outed as enjoying toilet humour.

3. What does your mum do when you’re not around?

10: Breakdance on the kitchen floor.
8: Sleep.
5: Goes on the computer.
3: Goes to the shops.
Me: Close to the mark, but I actually only break dance in my dreams.

4. What is your mum really good at?

10: Being bossy.
8: Planning dinners and getting them ready.
5: Computer.
3: Playing ball with me.
Me: Honest assessment!

5. What is your mum not very good at?

10: Football
8: Working in the garden.
5: Drawing.
3: Playing trains.
Me: Everyone’s a critic! I thought my punt kick was developing.

6. What does your mum do for a job?

10: Organise us.
8: Read stories
5: Look after us
3: Cook food.
Me: At least they realise that I work.

7. If your mum were a cartoon character, who would she be?

10: Porky Pig
8: Tom (from Tom and Jerry)
5: Spongebob Squarepants
3: Car crash (Have no idea what this means and he wouldn’t elaborate. Beginning of the random comments.)
Me: Think I align with Spongebob the most.

8. How are you and your mum the same?

10: We laugh at the same jokes.
8: Same personality.
5: Both have blue eyes
3: Big pigs.
Me: Besides my 3 year old’s response, I liked what they had to say.

9. How are you and your mum different?

10: You are fussy about your clothes.
8: I eat mandarins and you don’t.
5: Different hair.
3: You have long hair.
Me: By fussy I think he means matching.

10. How do you know your mum loves you?

10: You say darling.
8: Lets me play on her iPhone.
5: Give lots of kisses.
3: Sings me songs.
Me: Nice cross section of my personality.

And the bonus question which I found hilarious. I do enjoy my 10 year old’s sense of humour.

11. What does your mum like most about your dad?

10: He’s chiseled (hysterical laughter by all)
8: He does gardening.
5: He helps her.
3: He’s strong.
Me: I do love all those things about him.

If you ask your kids some questions, let me know as I would love to read it. They do say stuff about you that you normally wouldn’t! :)

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10 Things I Never Thought I Would Do As A Mother

I had my first baby at 26. I was the first of my siblings and close friends to have a baby, and to be honest did not know that much about them. This however did not prevent me from having firm views on certain issues relating to baby and child rearing.

Back in the baby days again with our beautiful little boy, I had a chuckle to myself recently about how many of things that I was “never going to do”, that I actually do!

  1. Leave the house with baby vomit on me.
    THEN: I often wondered if these women did not care about there appearance, having patches of white on them.

    NOW: I start the day clean. Try to wipe the vomit off as the day goes along, but only bother to change my top if it is a) saturated and b) if I am going out by myself!

  2. Use my own saliva to wash my children.
    THEN: How disgusting!

    NOW: Only used in those break glass in emergency cases, but I unfortunately have to admit to have wetting a tissue and wiping a toddler’s face on the way into a party or two, to clean them up.

  3. Eating cold left over food off the kids plates.
    THEN: As above, how disgusting!

    NOW: I aim to eat with the kids, but on those times when it doesn’t work out, when scraping the dishes before stacking the dishwasher, I will often find myself eating some cold pasta or stray bit of veg.

  4. Going to the toilet with an audience.
    THEN: Surely the children can manage for 45 seconds without their mother.

    NOW: Realise that the exact moment that I want to go to the toilet, will also be the exact moment every child will need my attention.

  5. Crumbs in my cleavage.
    THEN: I could never even imagine that this would happen to me.

    NOW: With the way maternity bras are designed and the fact that I often have baby in hand when eating my lunch or snack, it is amazing the crumb collection that can be found in my bra at the end of the day.

  6. Call my children by the wrong names.
    THEN: My dad could rarely say the right name first off when talking to one of his four daughters. How hard can be to say someone’s name I thought???

    NOW: Will often say a number of wrong names before I say the name of the child that I really want to talk to. I have increased the level of difficulty here for myself by naming 3 out of 5 children with the same starting letter.

  7. Use a dummy (pacifier).
    THEN: To be honest, I am not even sure what I had against the dummy, I just was never going to use one for my kids.

    NOW: Used a dummy for 3 out of 5 kids. Numbers 1 and 3 used it for a couple of months until they could co-ordinate their fingers and thumbs respectively to suck on. Number 5 looks like taking the same path. I had been using a dummy to help him get off to sleep, but he is now rejecting it and prefers human flesh.

  8. Think that my children are the most beautiful children in the world.
    THEN: Surely a parent must realise the less flattering aspects of their children’s appearances.

    NOW: I know I DEFINITELY have the most beautiful children in the world!

  9. Allow my 3 year old to wear bathers in winter.
    THEN: How hard could it be to put some warm clothes on a child?

    NOW: My 3 year old has worn on a number of occasions his bathers (board shorts and rashie top) on the walk to school when it is less than 14 degrees celsius. He is happy, not feeling the cold and I still have my sanity, therefore I live with the bather wearing.

  10. Love so much, that I think my heart could explode.
    THEN: Thought I would love them.

    NOW: Sometimes overwhelmed by how just how much love they bring to me. A love that simultaneously can make me want to laugh, cry and scream!

What about you? Are you doing things that you never thought you would?

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10 Fab Posts From May

A collection of my favourite posts from blog land over the last month:

On The Topic Of Parenting:

1. Giving Kids Time To Respond

Marie from Makes and Takes shares a simple tip on communicating with children - give the time they need to respond, before jumping in and taking over the conversation.

2. An Authentic Apology

This post at Creative Play Plus shows how you can diminish the power of an apology by adding the “but” at the end:

I apologize for yelling, BUT you know how much your whining irritates me.

Something that I need to remember.

3. Is My Child Doing Too Much

Kathy Walker answers a parent’s question about is too much after school activity affecting his schooling.

4. And For 48 hours, I Had A Plan

Karen (Miscmum) writes about how her own needs are forgone for those of her children. Something that I think all mum’s can relate to.

5. Quit Treating Parents Like Babies

In her opinion piece in the Washington Post, Lenore Skenazy critiques the “passive-aggressive baby industry that wants you to feel so completely, even dangerously unprepared for the challenges” of parenthood.

Activities For Kids:

6. Painted Cork Coasters

Let's Explore Cork Coasters

Image by Let’s Explore

At Let’s Explore they have a simple photo tutorial on how to make very cute coasters.

7. Draw And Colour

Kate from Picklebums has some fantastic ideas and links to use to get your kids using their imagination with their drawing and colouring in.

8. Acorn Men And Chestnut Chaps

Esther from Babyccino show how to have fun in Autumn with nature.

9. Circle Collage Garland

Emily at Red Bird Crafts has step by step photo instructions on how to make a beautiful garland with your preschooler.

10. Play Hopscotch Inside

Rookiemoms Hopscotch Inside

Image by Nienie Dialogues

Heather at Rookiemoms has a fantastic idea - bringing hopscotch inside. Perfect for rainy days. Will give this a run these winter school holidays.

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10 Children’s Activities In Melbourne For June

1. The Light In Winter Festival

The Light In Winter Festival is an annual event held at Federation Square and is a celebration of community life in Melbourne centred around light.

Festival Of Light June Melbourne

Image United Visual Artists

There are a number of exhibitions, but the one which I think children will enjoy isVolume. It is a free installation that will run 4 June - 5 July.

Known for their work with U2, Massive Attack, The Arctic Monkeys and Kylie Minogue, UK-based United Visual Artists will launch their latest installation, ‘Volume’ on 4 June. With a soundtrack arranged by Neil Davidge and Robert Del Naja of Massive Attack, this incredible fusion of light and sound will see a forest of luminous LED columns light up Fed Square during the winter months. The columns respond spectacularly to human movement and visitors are encouraged to walk, crawl, jump and dance their way through this interactive installation.

2. Winter Solstice Bonfire

Collingwood Children’s Farm celebrates the Winter Solstice each year. Festivities this year include: Fire Performers, Children’s Lantern Parade, Giant Lanterns, Mulled Wine, Food Stalls, Bar, Wandering Minstrel and Drummers.

When: 20th June, 4pm onwards. The fire performers will begin at approximately 5pm. The fire will be lit at 6pm.
Cost: $16 family, $8 adult, $4 Children
Bookings: Through Try Booking Online

3. Justine Clarke - Making The Garden Grow

From Playschool and now an entertainer in her own right Justine Clarke is doing live show across the eastern cities during June.

Date: Tues 9th June
Where: Dallas Brooks Centre, East Melbourne
When: 10am and Midday
Cost: $20 per ticket

4. Sunday Funday

These fun sessions are held at the Lego Education Centre in Moonee Ponds. Aimed at ages 4+, children bring along an adult and have some building fun.

Lego Sunday Funday Workshop

Image by Guillermo

Each Sunday has a different theme and the sessions run for 45 minutes. There are three sessions through out the day at 11am, 12noon, 1pm. No bookings are necessary.

5. Harry Potter Movie Marathon

One for the older children. ACMI is hosting a Harry Potter special:

The world’s favourite boy wizard returns to ACMI - all five films in the series screening throughout June and July, plus two Harry Potter Movie Marathons on Tuesday 30 June and Wednesday 8 July, with all films screening back-to-back!

Cost: Single tickets are $5 (no marathon prices stated as yet) and will be available soon from ACMI Ticketing.

6. Toddler Town

Edit: I must have been quite distracted when I linked up this entry. As my friend Lou pointed out it is for the City Museum in Missouri! I was looking for the City Museum in Melbourne. It can be found here but unfortuantely doesn’t have a toddler town! Apologies for any confusion I may have caused.

Toddler Town can be found at the City Museum.

Toddler Town City Museum

Image City Museum

Located next to Art City and bathed in blue, Toddler Town is the perfect retreat for City Museum’s youngest visitors. Filled with tinier tunnels, shorter slides, and seats for tired travelers, this microcosm of CITY MUSEUM is the perfect size for those not yet ready to take off their training wheels.

Entry: $12 for age 3 and up.

7. Super-Action Storytelling

Held at Experimedia at The State Library these are free sessions for primary school age children.

With storyteller Bernard Caleo, children will discover the Library’s galleries and the amazing stories they tell, then make a creative record of their experience. (For ages 6 to 12.)

Cost: Free
Bookings Required: bookings@slv.vic.gov.au or 03 8664 7099.

8.Family Fun Day At The Farm

Evenings can be a tricy time to get out wtith small ones, so if you can’t make it to the Collingwood Children’s Farm for the evening Winter Solstice Bonfire, try the family fun day.

When:
Sunday June 7th
What: On Family Days there are free pony rides, hay rides, a BBQ and activities matching the monthly theme. The theme this month is woodworking.
Cost: $16 Family, $8 Adult, $4 Child. Car parking is $4 all day.

9. Organic Cookery School

Little Kitchen is located in North Fitzroy.

Little Kitchen Cooking Lessons

It is is Australia’s FIRST organic cookery school designed and custom-built especially for children!

Our students spend one hour and 10 minutes preparing 2 interesting recipes and 20 minutes in the children’s dining room sampling their two Organic creations!

Parents are very welcome to stay onsite during the lesson and relax at a table in our cookware concept store.

Our venue has AIR-CONDITIONING and HEATING, catering for both ends of the Melbourne weather spectrum!

When:

  • 4 - 6 yr olds Saturday’s (12noon – 1.30pm) Seasonal foods and festivities.
  • 7 - 11 yr olds Saturday’s (10am – 11.30am) Cooking Masterclass series.

Cost: Tuition, 2 courses eaten on site, all take home notes - $39 per student.

Bookings: Essential online or 1300 722 095.

10. Fun4Kids Children’s Festival

I know that Warrnambool is not in Melbourne, but this is such a big kids event and it is on during the next school holidays so thought it deserved a mention.

Fun4Kids Children’s Festival is:

Housed in a magical 2.5 acre fully indoor ‘village’ in the heart of Warrnambool, the festival offers a feast of experiences - and the best thing is you pay one entry fee then all the fun is Free! So once you have bought your ticket you have no more to pay.

The Festival is a not-for-profit event produced by the Warrnambool City Council and assisted by our dedicated sponsors, an army of volunteers and the generous support of the Warrnambool community at large.

The magical 2.5 acre Fun4Kids village will come alive again from Sunday 28 June to Sunday 5 July.

Cost: The prices below are for one day passes. 8 day passes are available.

Single - $30
Family 4 - $105
Family 5 - $131.25
Family 6 - $157.50

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10 Albums I Love At The Moment

A slight diversion from my usual lists at this time of the week, but I have been going through my album collection at the moment, in order to put music on my new iPhone. (I was very lucky for my birthday and received the iPhone from the hubby and kids, which I just love :) .)

So I thought I would share some of my favourite albums at the moment with the hope that you might leave me some suggestions for new music to add to the collection. I have quite eclectic taste liking everything from country to techno, so if you have something on repeat play on your iPod I would love to hear about it.

In no particular order here are my 10 favourites at the moment:

1. Antony and The Johnsons - The Crying Light
Very calming for me and was the album playing when I gave birth to our baby boy in January.

2. Girl Talk - Feed The Animals
A raucous mash up of old and new tunes. Really wanted to see Girl Talk when they were out in early Feb for the St Jerome’s Festival, but I had just had a baby so couldn’t quite make it. The festival access went pear shaped anyway, so probably lucky that I didn’t buy a ticket.

3. Eilen Jewell - Letters From Sinners And Strangers
Folk style album with a country twang.

4. Bon Iver - For Emma, Forever Ago
Beautiful lyrics, gentle guitar based tunes.

5. Kasey Chambers and Shane Nicholson - Rattlin’ Bones
Australian couple make their first album together. Roots, country flavour.

6. M Ward - Hold Time
More folky tunes. He does a very cool cover of Rave On.

7. Lykke Li - Youth Novels
Young Swedish lass sings some beautiful pop. My favourite track is Dance, Dance, Dance.

8. Bloc Party - A Week End In The City
This is their 2007 release. I do have their latest release Intimacy, but it just didn’t click with me as much as Weekend In The City. Flux and Where is home? stand outs for me.

9. MGMT - Oracular Spectacular
Bit of synth/elctro pop stuff. Fave tunes are Time To Pretend and Kids.

10. The Wombats - A Guide to Love, Loss & Desperation
Indie pop, rock. The lyrics are also quite hilarious in parts.

So tell me what else should I be listening to???

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10 Tips For Coping With A New Baby

Coping With A Newborn Baby

Our beautiful little boy is three and half months old now. It is amazing how much you learn with each child. Some of this stuff I wish I knew when I had my first and second children, so I thought I would share some coping strategies for life with a new baby.

(1). Enjoy your baby.

I have deliberately put this tip first. The heading of the post can sound like babies are all hard work, but this is definitely not the case. It is hard work, but work which reaps amazing results. Don’t take it so seriously, that you don’t enjoy your beautiful baby.

Remember, the house will eventually become tidy, the baby will eventually sleep and eventually you will not be in a sleep deprived fog. The baby however will grow up quickly and that precious time cannot be made up.

(2). Trust your instincts.

As parents you know your baby, trust this knowledge and try what you think will work for your baby. Be confident in your ability as a parent. (This is especially true as the baby grows into a toddler - children can smell doubt or fear!)

(3). Filter the advice from others.

Everybody has advice for new parents. I have always listened to advice of other parents, if they have been there before they may have answers for you. I do however filter out advice that does not fit my parenting style.

Naturally I didn’t have a parenting style to start out with, but if I tried something and it didn’t feel right, made me anxious or worried, I wouldn’t do it. You must feel comfortable and confident with how you parent your baby.

(4). What Sleeping Problem?

Someone once gave me this piece of advice on babies and sleeping:

It is only a sleeping problem if you are unhappy with the sleeping situation.

When deprived of sleep it is so easy to become slightly obsessed about how much your baby is sleeping (speaking from personal experience!). Lots of people have views on where baby should sleep, how long baby should sleep and when baby should start sleeping through the night. In reality I don’t believe that there is any one “right” way to approach baby’s sleep. Don’t worry what other people think, if you are happy with how you and baby are sleeping, don’t feel pressured to change.

(5). Communicate with your partner.

Don’t assume that your partner knows what you are feeling or what your day is like. Especially if you are the mum and are at home full time, don’t keep your feelings to yourself. I have found that doing this then means a rather big eruption of feelings, when there are too many to hold in!

(6). Prepare In Advance.

As you may have noted from this blog, I love a bit of planning. However, my planning obsession really only came to its full light once I had children. Doing things in advance when you get the time, means that if everything starts to fall apart later on in the day, then you won’t feel so stressed.

Cooking the evening meal in the morning is a great example of that. Late afternoon, early evening can be a challenging time with a new baby, so if you don’t have to worry about cooking then, you can just spend time tending to the baby’s needs.

(7). Take Nana Naps.

I love an afternoon nap. Even now, a couple of times a week I will lie down for an afternoon nap when our baby and three year old are having their afternoon sleeps. It means that by the time the 5.00pm rush hits, I am not so tired and I have greater patience with the children.

(8). Readjust your standards.

Once upon a time, when I would clean my house, I would do it in one session. I could then sit back and reflect on how clean and tidy everything was. With a new baby (and 4 other children) I simply do not have the blocks of spare time to do this. I have adjusted my standards and accept that it takes me a number of days to go through the house and have all the cleaning done.

Depending on how much your baby sleeps and how you have recovered from the birth, you may need to adjust your standards on things like ironing, cleaning, fancy meals etc.

(9). Get outside of the house.

Exercise and fresh air are great for you and the baby. Simply going for a short walk each day, can do wonders for your mood. It can also be quite isolating being home full time with a new baby. Join a mother’s group or find a regular social outlet that you can participate in, so you can have adult stimulation.

(10). Acknowledge your work.

When you have a little baby, it is important that you acknowledge all the things that you have managed to achieve in a day. Don’t focus on what didn’t get done. Kathy at Zucchini in Bikinis wrote a great post on this issue called Achievement.

At the moment with our little baby if I manage to get the children to school with a healthy lunch and on time, cook a decent meal, complete the after school activities and do a load of washing, it is a great day.

I have to remind myself not to worry about the pile of ironing waiting for me, dusting which needs to be done, oven which needs to be cleaned, toy cupboard which needs reorganising etc etc! Having a new baby is a time in our life when completing the essential tasks is a great achievement.

What coping strategies would you offer a new parent?

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10 Favourite Posts For April

I really enjoy writing these monthly posts, reviewing some of my favourite readings from the blogosphere. It is always hard to narrow it down to ten, as their is so much great stuff out there.

If you have read something in April that you loved, please leave a link in the comments and share some of your favourites.

These first two posts are very personal and poignant. They are tinged with sadness, so you may need a tissue.

(1). Warrior Wednesday

Alison at Three Times Kewl gave a birth to a beautiful baby boy last year, that came too earlier and just wasn’t strong enough yet. This post written to him - Zy her Warrior.

(2). Even if it’s a crooked rainbow with colors missing. It still counts, damnit.

Lotus at Sarcastic Mom, also reflects on loss, as the anniversary of her first miscarriage comes around.

The next two are reflections on family life:

(3). How I Became Domestic

Nicki at Domestic Cents talks about her journey of how she became a “domestic mama” and how she is very content with who she is.

(4). A Letter Of Appreciation

In this post Sarah from Clover Lane is writing to her husband to say thanks for his efforts on their vacation, which allowed her to feel recharged.

The following four posts can give you inspiration for things to make with the kids:

(5). Veggie Pops For Kids

Goddess Of The Garden shows you how to make Popsicles with spinach in them!

(6). All Tied Up

Maya at maya*made shows how you can create a simple tool to help children practice tying knots.

(7). Lemon Cake Balls

Leigh Anne from Your Homebased Mum has step by step photos on how to make cake balls - very cute.

(8). Magazine cut-out activity with toddlers

Katey from Having Fun At Home has a creative and simple idea on how to have fun with your old magazines, by making stories with the pictures.

The last two post have some great organisational tips:

(9). 9 Lists To Keep Updated, and Keep Handy

Stepcase LifeHack gives you fantastic suggested lists that you should keep updated in a handy notebook - things like “Got a minute” and “Gift Ideas” etc.

(10). Organizing Your Child’s Room is a Process

Laura at I’m An Organizing Junkie aims to make the tasks of organising a child’s room easier, by detailing a process you can follow.

Looking forward to seeing what you enjoyed reading last month.

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10 Children’s Activities In Melbourne For May

Out of the ten children’s activities listed last month, we only managed to fit in one, which was rock climbing at Hard Rock. We actually took our two eldest sons and four friends for our second son’s 8th birthday. They had a fantastic time and it really was great value for money as you could stay as long as the kids could keep climbing! We all came back home for dinner and the kids had a terrific appetite after all their exercise.

Here are ten children’s activities in Melbourne for the month of May, that I think would be fun!

1. Reconciliation Week Activities

Reconciliation Week is from May 27 until June 3. Check out Reconciliation Victoria for a full list of events, but the highlight for the kids is Children’s Cheering Carpet - Saltbush (29th - 30th).

The brilliant Children’s Cheering Carpet - Saltbush combines live music, mesmerising projection and dancing to create a magical landscape. Alongside international and Indigenous Australian performers, children will explore the interactive ‘cheering carpet’ as a wonderful landscape unfolds around them.

Time: Friday, 6.30pm to 7.30pm; Saturday, 12.30pm to 1.30pm and 6.30pm to 7.30pm
Location: ArtPlay, Birrarung Marr
Contact: Art Play
Cost: $10 per person; bookings essential; families welcome

2. Be Good To Your Mama - Mother’s Day Concert

The Mudcakes stir up an organic stew of original songs, and create a new taste in kids music that is food ears young and old.

When: Sunday, May 10 - 11.00am
Where: Union Hotel, 109 Union St, Brunswick.
What: Come and celebrate Mums and family music with the Mudcakes. Doors open 10.30am. A 45 minute show in this clean and family friendly hotel with a playground and park just behind and a lovely courtyard out back. Champagne breakfast and bar available… sorry it’s not included in door price.
Cost: Mums and babes under 12m FREE! Kids $10 Adults $5. Book tickets through The Mudcakes website.

3. Royal Botanic Gardens Cranbourne Mothers’ Day ~ FREE entry for Mums!

Another Mother’s Day Activity for the family. See the RBG website for further details, but here are the essential details:
When: Sunday 10 May 9.00am - 5.00pm. Drop in/out: 11.00 - 12.30pm
Where: Australian Garden
Cost: Mums with at least one of their children will enter the Australian Garden FREE on Mothers’ Day only. Drop in/out: $3.20 per child per activity. Children must be accompanied by an adult.
Bookings & enquiries: (03) 5990 2245 Bookings not required.

B

ring your Mum to the Australian Garden on Mothers’ Day and you’ll get Mum in for FREE! The Boonerwurrung Café will be creating delicious treats to thank Mums for all their hard work.

Kids - drop in to our activity station to create a beautiful present for Mum. Create a candle that smells of the Australian bush using bees wax, eucalypt leaves and gum nuts.

4. Art Gallery Experience

Both the National Gallery Of Victoria (NGV) International and Australia have free children’s activities on the week ends

NGV National runs Art Cart on Sundays. During May it is connected to the John Brack’s exhibition. “A great way to be introduced to John Brack’s art and his world. Create a mixed media art work inspired by his ideas and style. Venue Foyer, Level 3.

NGV International has Art Sparks running on Saturdays also from 12 - 3pm. During may the theme Dressed to Rule:
Imperial Robes of China.   Kids can make art that relates to the Dressed to Rule exhibition.

5. A Series Of Firsts - ACMI

This is definitely one for older children. I would really like to see these free documentaries running at ACMI.

Don’t miss this moving series of eight biographical documentaries, capturing the stories of some of Victoria’ most prominent women, produced by ACMI in partnership with the Office of Women’s Policy, Department of Planning and Community Development.

A Series of Firsts celebrates the groundbreaking careers of The Hon. Joan Kirner, The Hon. Gracia Baylor, Dur-e Dara, Dr Isabel Joy Bear, Voula Messimeri-Kianidis, Leckie Ord, Judy Madigan MP and Jeanette Powell MP.

Date: Sun 10 May 2009
Location: ACMI, Studio 1
Audience: General
Cost: Free
Drop in to Studio 1 anytime between 10am & 5pm. The films will be screening on a continuous loop.

6. Buddha’s Day - Artplay

On Sunday 17 May, Artplay is celebrating Buddha’s Day. There are three separate events:

  • Tai Chi for the whole family
    Balance your mind, body and spirit, circulate your Chi, and learn basic movements in this special family Tai Chi session with senior instructor, Mark Mayes.
    Time: 11am to 11.30am
    Age: 5 years and above (all children must be accompanied by an adult)
    Cost: $5 per person
    Bookings essential and families welcome
  • Share Tea with Me – Ch’an Tea Ceremony for Children
    A two part workshop introducing the rituals and symbolism of the Ch’an Tea Ceremony demonstrated by children from the Buddha’s Light Youth Group. Paint your own take-home tea cups and invite parents to share tea as you perform your own tea ceremony and learn about Buddhist storytelling and symbolism.
    Time: noon to 4pm, with a break from 1.30pm to 3pm
    Age: 5 years and above (all children must be accompanied by an adult)
    Cost: $20 per child (adults FREE!)
    Bookings essential and families welcome.
  • Ikebana for kids
    Ikebana or “the way of flowers’ is the Japanese art of flower arrangement, originating from the tradition of offering flowers to Buddha. Learn the basics from the Ikebana International Chapter 29 Inc in this fun, original workshop.
    Time: 2pm to 2.45pm
    Age: 5 years and above
    Cost: $15 per child (adults FREE)
    Bookings essential and families welcome.

7. Sparky Stories: Digital Workshop

Held at the State Library of Victoria, this is a free session for kids aged 6 to 12

Inspired by illustrated books from the Library’s collection, each child will create a digital picture-book, complete with illustrations and their own narration.
Time: Sun 10 & 24 May, 10am–12noon
Venue: Experimedia
Bookings: Phone 03 8664 7099, email bookings@slv.vic.gov.au or book online for 10 May or 24 May.

8. Scienceworks

Scienceworks has a number of interesting exhibitions at the moment - Visual Illusions, Imagination Factory and Mathamazing which starts on May 2. They also have a free activity (with entry) for kids on weekends, until 14 Jun from 1:00 PM - 3:00 PM.

Ball-istic Balloons - Make your own colourful balloon ball to take home and practice fun tricks, while improving your coordination and focus.

Activity takes around 10 minutes, join in any time.

Children must be accompanied by an adult. Suitable for ages 5 and up.

9. Kids’ Authors Unite!

The Readings Bookstores have some fantastic in store events for children and adults. This session is at their Port Melbourne store on Sunday 24 May 2009 at 11:00am.

Children’s authors will read and entertain:

  • Juliet Williams & Elizabeth Botté will talk about their picture book The Giggle Gum Tree, about sisters, Lily and Amanda, and their favourite tree, the Giggle Gum.
  • Goldie Alexander & Michelle Gaudion will discuss Lame Duck Protest, a picture book that deals with issues of conservation and wildlife preservation in a touching way.
  • David Reiter will talk about his novel Global Cooling, the second in a series of environmentally conscious but enjoyable novels for kids who want to learn about how to save the Earth.
  • Di Bates & Marjory Gardner will discuss their non-fiction book, Aussie Kid Heroes, which tells the remarkable true stories of some of Australia’s youngest heroes, in Guinness World Records style.

Free, but please book on 9681 9255 or by email.

10. Mill And Mia Craft Sessions

Mill and Mia is a gorgeous children’s clothing store in Auburn Road, Hawthorn. However they are not just into clothing but aim “to deliver a beautiful, creative haven for children (young and old) ….to shop, create and play.”

To this end they have two different style of session at their store:

To encourage and inspire children in the areas of textile design, sewing, jewellery, puppet making and graphic design, craft sessions run by various prominent Melbourne designers, including those behind the brand, are also held on the first Saturday of every month, for children aged 5 – 10 years. For $25, from 4 – 5pm, children will be shown how to create their own artistic masterpiece, in a colourful contemporary and vibrant environment. (Bookings essential).

For pre-school children, storytime will be held each Friday morning from 9.30 – 10.15am, offering children the chance to relax and imagine with books, play in the store’s unique play tunnels, engage in a simple craft activity, and with their parents and carers, sample the delicious delights of local organic food store / café - Sprout.

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