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	<title>Comments on: The Dilemmas Of Modern Parenting</title>
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		<title>By: PlanningQueen</title>
		<link>http://planningwithkids.com/2008/06/14/the-dilemmas-of-modern-parenting/comment-page-1/#comment-1075</link>
		<dc:creator>PlanningQueen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Jun 2008 08:20:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Tiff - I hope so to!

Bettina - I really appreciated your thoughtful comment.  I haven&#039;t quite reached that stage yet, but I can easily see how it gets harder as they get older.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tiff &#8211; I hope so to!</p>
<p>Bettina &#8211; I really appreciated your thoughtful comment.  I haven&#8217;t quite reached that stage yet, but I can easily see how it gets harder as they get older.</p>
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		<title>By: Bettina</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bettina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Jun 2008 13:08:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>sorry about the essay in your comments

Bettinas last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://dancestothebeetofherowndrum.wordpress.com/2008/06/17/screw-up-tuesday-11/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Screw Up Tuesday&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>sorry about the essay in your comments</p>
<p>Bettinas last blog post..<a href="http://dancestothebeetofherowndrum.wordpress.com/2008/06/17/screw-up-tuesday-11/" rel="nofollow">Screw Up Tuesday</a></p>
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		<title>By: Bettina</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bettina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Jun 2008 13:08:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I dunno. In general terms........ perhaps. But there are so many that aren&#039;t. I think it is more of a case of the technology that we our society has changed so much in such a short time, that parenting has not evolved quite as quickly to cope with it. 

Look at technology. I&#039;m only 35. Hardly old by anyone&#039;s standards, but there are so many things available to my children that weren&#039;t to me. Mobile phones, the internet, gaming systems, email. 

For example just last week I had to shut down my daughters email account as she was getting emails from  people we don&#039;t know due to her friends not using email responsibly but so many parents don&#039;t know. How do they parent something they don&#039;t understand? How do you put boundaries on children interacting in a social medium that you have no experience of? 

I think we need to bridge the gaps. I think we need to get in there and know what our children are dealing with so that we can guide them through and set appropriate boundaries.

Bettinas last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://dancestothebeetofherowndrum.wordpress.com/2008/06/17/screw-up-tuesday-11/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Screw Up Tuesday&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I dunno. In general terms&#8230;&#8230;.. perhaps. But there are so many that aren&#8217;t. I think it is more of a case of the technology that we our society has changed so much in such a short time, that parenting has not evolved quite as quickly to cope with it. </p>
<p>Look at technology. I&#8217;m only 35. Hardly old by anyone&#8217;s standards, but there are so many things available to my children that weren&#8217;t to me. Mobile phones, the internet, gaming systems, email. </p>
<p>For example just last week I had to shut down my daughters email account as she was getting emails from  people we don&#8217;t know due to her friends not using email responsibly but so many parents don&#8217;t know. How do they parent something they don&#8217;t understand? How do you put boundaries on children interacting in a social medium that you have no experience of? </p>
<p>I think we need to bridge the gaps. I think we need to get in there and know what our children are dealing with so that we can guide them through and set appropriate boundaries.</p>
<p>Bettinas last blog post..<a href="http://dancestothebeetofherowndrum.wordpress.com/2008/06/17/screw-up-tuesday-11/" rel="nofollow">Screw Up Tuesday</a></p>
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		<title>By: tiff</title>
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		<dc:creator>tiff</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Jun 2008 03:14:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I hope I&#039;m not...that would be alot of spoiled brats out there in the world.

tiffs last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.mythreeringcircus.com/2008/06/weekly-winners-birthdays-and-other-stuff-edition/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Weekly Winners - birthdays and other stuff edition.&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I hope I&#8217;m not&#8230;that would be alot of spoiled brats out there in the world.</p>
<p>tiffs last blog post..<a href="http://www.mythreeringcircus.com/2008/06/weekly-winners-birthdays-and-other-stuff-edition/" rel="nofollow">Weekly Winners &#8211; birthdays and other stuff edition.</a></p>
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