Menu Plan Monday - The Favourites

Don’t forget the ickle kids activity pack giveaway ends on Wednesday 21st May at 9am Australian EST if you haven’t entered yet!

We have a pretty basic menu plan this week. The children all chose their favourite winter style meals as the cold weather has really set in. Although it is a basic menu, it is all good food that I know the kids will eat and I didn’t have to think of it!!!

Monday: Sausage and Veg

Baking: Rice Bubble Treat

Tuesday: Pasta with Chicken and Spinach

Wednesday: Kin’s Apricot Chicken

Thursday: Beef Stir Fry

Friday: Fried Rice

Saturday: Left Overs

Sunday: Beef Stroganoff

Again, I have included the shopping list for this week’s menu plan as an excel file. The below paragraphs explain what is in the attached excel file below.

Shopping List For Menu Plan 080519

It contains three separate spreadsheets. The first is named “Complete Grocery’ and it lists by supermarket aisle all the ingredients that are needed to cook the family meals for this week.

The second spreadsheet is named “Ingredient By Meal’ and it lists the ingredients that are required for the family by each individual meal this week. I have also left on the aisle and aisle subsection in this spreadsheet for reference, but if you want to print that out you will need to alter the print area.

The third spreadsheet is named “Menu Plan” and is a modified version of the menu plan that I print and place on the fridge. I have a notes section, that I like to populate with any activities that are likely to impact the evening meal routine.

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For more menu planning ideas head on over to Laura’s place at “I’m an Organizing Junkie“.

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Do You Iron?

We do iron our clothes in our house. I am lucky that my husband will iron and is quite good at it. I do though have friends who don’t iron any clothes at all. They always look good and not crumpled, but I can’t seem to move out of the mindset that I must iron all our clothes.

With 2 adults and four children this makes quite a lot of work and during busy times the ironing can build up. To cope with this I have implemented a storage system for the ironing, which you can see in the photo.

My preference of course would be to keep up to date with the ironing (and if I didn’t blog so much maybe I would :) ). But seeing that this is not always achievable, when I fold the clothes I have a wheeled storage trolley in which to place the clothes.

I have the children’s clothes on the top, then mine, then Mr Infrastructure’s. I find that this works better for us compared to a straight ironing basket, because I can quickly go to the relevant shelf if I am trying to find a particular item of clothing. As the trolley is on wheels, I can easily move it from its home in the laundry to another room if needed.

So what about you? Do you iron the family clothes? If so, what are your tricks for keeping it under control (mine hardly ever is!)? If not, how do you manage to have your clothes not look creased?

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Am I Over Parenting?

If you have read even a little bit on this blog, you would would most likely know these two facts about me: I love my children and I take my parenting seriously. For all the love, fun and joy it gives me, I believe that it also gives me great responsibilities.

I was reading an edited extract of a new book by Carl Honore called Under Pressure and it has caused me to look closely at how I parent.

The book is about:

“how childhood has been hijacked by adults in a way never seen before in history and investigates how the natural instinct to want our children to have the best of everything and be the best at everything is backfiring on kids, parents and society as a whole.”

Honore states that the :

“aim in the book is not to blame or demonize parents. It is to make us all feel less guilty and insecure about our children, and to show how parenting less hard can actually help them to thrive even more.”

The extract gave me a lot to think about. Since I read The Hurried Child by David Eklind, I have been aiming for balance in the kids lives with school, extra curricular and social activities, I admit to not always getting this right but overall it is pretty good.

But Under Pressure is talking about more than this. It is talking about hyper parenting or helicopter parenting. It is a parenting style where wanting the best for children and therefore monitoring the children so closely, that it is difficult for the children to be independent of the parent.

This is not the parenting style that I wish to have, but when I looked at how I approached my eldest son’s homework last night, I have to wonder how close to this line I am sometimes.

In direct opposition to this though, I also worry about whether I am doing enough? I know I am not supposed to compare, but when you hear that this child is taking this class and that child is doing this extension program, I worry that I lam etting my children fall behind by not enrolling them in such classes.

Then I read an extract like this and I return to my senses. I remember that children need time to play, time to investigate, time to explore and time to be a child. Honore urges readers to

“to ease off, trust their instincts and find the natural balance between doing too much and too little for children. “

What is at risk from over parenting? Creating kids who can’t stand on their own. They don’t know how to make sound decisions and they aren’t equipped to deal with failure and frustration.

Honore also points out that unfortunately more children are likely to suffer from under parenting:

“You don’t find many children being project managed in the refugee camps of Sudan or the shanty towns of Latin America….Let’s be honest: most helicopter parents hail from the middle classes.”

Honore himself admits getting caught up into the frenzy himself, but thankfully not permanently and he used the experience as a spring board to write this book and remind parents like me that children need some room to grow to their potential.

I look forward to reading the full story in Under Pressure and am first on the waiting list at our local library when the order for the book comes in!

CREDIT: Thanks to my friend Belinda who pointed this book extract out to me and who thought I might like to “blog about it”. She was right!

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Tear Down The Great Fire Wall Of China

Bloggers Unite
This post is my contribution to Bloggers Unite For Human Rights.

As an Australian I can openly express my political views on this blog, on a chat room or in an email without fear of persecution. It is not the same in every country.

The following three excerpts are taken from the Anmensty International Website and detail the current state of Internet censorship in China:

The Great Firewall
That’s Internet censorship, China’s ‘Golden Shield Project’. The Government is watching you.

Behind what has been dubbed the ‘Great Firewall of China’ citizens can be imprisoned for sending emails, posting blogs or passing on information deemed to be sensitive, a threat to national sovereignty or a state secret.

In China the Internet has become a new frontier in the fight for human rights.

Thousands of Internet police
China has reportedly employed between 30,000 and 50,000 special Internet police who, with the aid of Western-provided technology, read private emails, conduct surveillance, remove blogs and block banned websites.

On screen, Internet users looking at China’s most popular websites will see a cartoon cyber-police officer appear every half hour. The cartoon officer reminds them not to view censored material.

Breeding fear
There is no list of what is censored or what authorities are looking for – it’s kept deliberately vague and is constantly updated – this instills fear and uncertainty in Internet surfers in the hope that, on top of all the other controls, they will censor themselves.

China is helped by the Internet companies – global giants Yahoo!, Google and Microsoft, and Chinese companies such as Alibaba and Baidu – who have signed a pledge with the Government, the contents of which have not been made public.

The pledge allows the companies to operate in China, but only under conditions that involve censorship of their users.

What can you do?
Head to Uncensor and keep up to date with the current Internet censorship in China.

If you are in Australia, you can help to Tear down the Great Firewall of China. Volunteers are needed to tear down 20,000 bricks in 90 days, which is a peaceful protest in the lead up to the Beijing Olympic Games.

Each brick of the wall holds an action aimed at the Internet companies who enable censorship in China, such as Yahoo!, Google, Microsoft, Sohu and Baidu, the action cards call on them, to stop assisting human rights violations.

Click here to see when the wall will be in your part of Australia.

For those of you outside Australia, you can take online action to support Shi Tao. Shi Tao is a journalist who is serving a ten-year prison sentence for sending an email to the U.S. Yahoo! provided information to the Chinese Government, which led to his unjust imprisonment.

So if you write on your blog today, read a blog or send an email without fear, then do something for those who do not have the same rights as us.

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10 Essential Items For The Family Car Trip

We have made a few trips to my home town of Mildura recently and I have collated a little check list of the essential items that we must have for the long drive.

(1). Healthy Food.
I like to make a food pack for each child so they can eat when they feel hungry. I find that if the kids eat junk food while travelling their behaviour deteriorates, so I try to keep the food as healthy as possible. I generally make homemade treats, so at least I know they are not preservative and additive laden.

The additional positives to packing our own food is that it is much cheaper and it gives us much greater flexibility with regard to stopping. My little ones tend to wake once the car stops so if they are sleeping, we just keep going, if the others are hungry they can eat from their pack.

(2). Water (Lots)
It is amazing how thirsty you can get sitting in a car. In the lead up to the trip I will save up cordial bottles etc and use to store water. I can then use them on the trip to refill the children’s individual drink bottles if they need it.

(3). Tissues
We always find a use for them. Last time my oldest had a blood nose, which he gets quite frequently.

(4). Wet Face Washers
I also put one of these with the children’s food packs. Fruit can often be sticky and you need something wet to clean little hands and faces.

(5). Children’s Activities
At the end of my very long post about Planning For the Easter Holidays you will find links to a number of different sites to print out children’s activities. They span for kids aged 2 to 9.

I have also created one of my own, which is called Spot The Sign Game. The children simply put a stroke near all the things that they see during a defined time period. Initially when I did this I just let it run, but found it runs out of steam if there is no purpose.

Now we agree on a time frame for observing items. We will choose one sheet at a time. Each child nominates what they think will be the most and least popular items that we spot.
By setting up the game in this way, we can have a couple of sessions through out the trip and maintain the children’s interest. The below link is the word document of this game.

Spot The Sign Game

We also bring along the ickle kids activity packs which always help to keep the kids amused. I am actually giving one away this week. You can find the giveaway at my Menu Plan Monday And ickle kids Activity Pack Give Away post.

(6). Audio Books and CDs
So far I have resisted the temptation to purchase a portable DVD player and we still rely on the CD player as a source of entertainment.

We have a rotation system, where every one has a choice and keep taking it in turns until we arrive at our destination. I compiled a list of my favourite audio books here and be sure to check the comments as well. There were some fabulous suggestions made by readers.

(7). Secret Stash
This flies in the face of point one above, but I always like to have a stash of emergency treats if all seems to be on the edge of falling apart. Small packets of chips or tiny teddies work well for us and there is no melting possibility which is also good.

(8). Pillows
To be honest this one is probably for me more than the kids. Their flexible little bodies don’t seem to stiffen like mine does if I fall asleep in the wrong position.:) But I think the kids do find them comforting as well.

(9). Small Sheet or Towel
This item has a dual purpose:
(i). We don’t have shaded windows, so it can be wedged in the window to block out sun if it is annoying any of the children.
(ii). Thankfully even though I suffered badly from travel sickness as a child, my children do not. We have encountered a gastro sickness though when travelling, so to have a towel or other cloth item to clean up mess is incredibly helpful.

(10). A Flexible Attitude
When we travelled as a child from Mildura to Melbourne, we would have one very quick stop in the 6 hour drive and that was it. The drive was just that a drive to get from A to B.

We tend to make ours more like a journey, stopping where needed (this is determined by the level of whining/fighting etc!!!) at local parks to let the kids stretch their legs and have a play.

Once we reload everyone into the car, I find that we are all refreshed and in better spirits.

What tips do you have to ensure a fun and safe car trip?

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Menu Plan Monday And ickle kids Activity Pack Give Away

I have a fantastic give away to announce today. I am going to give away one ickle kids activity pack to a reader up to the value of $45.

A great friend of mine runs an online business called ickle kids. ickle kids are all about activity packs for kids on the go! The range includes age-specific travel packs for children from birth to 10 years. Each travel activity pack contains a selection of handpicked, fun and educational toys for busy mums, dads and carers to just “grab and go”.

I have bought a couple of different packs for my kids and they love them. I love them also as we have been travelling a bit lately and they have been perfect for keeping them amused.

To enter: Simply visit ickle kids and then come back here and leave a comment letting me know which pack you would like if you were to win (up to value of AUD$45). Give away closes Wednesday 21st May at 9am Australian EST. I will post the winner in the afternoon of Wednesday 21st May.

Now back to my traditional MPM post! This week I am still taking inspiration from the vegetables in season this month, so more soup and more lovely veggies! I am settling into the new look and functionality of WordPress 2.5.1 and have included my shopping list at the end of the post. I now have to go back in the archives and add links to shopping lists and recipes in previous MPM posts which I will do tomorrow.

Monday: Lamb Chops, Potato Au Gratin with seasonal vegetables

Tuesday: Baked Penne with Bacon

Wednesday: Chicken and Creamed Vegetable Soup

Thursday: Sausage and Vegetables

Friday: Left Overs

Saturday: Margarita Pizzas

Sunday: Pasta Bake

Shopping List for Menu Plan 12 May 2008

Carrot Cake

Again, I have included the shopping list for this week’s menu plan as an excel file. The below paragraphs explain what is in the attached excel file below.

It contains three separate spreadsheets. The first is named “Complete Grocery’ and it lists by supermarket aisle all the ingredients that are needed to cook the family meals for this week.

The second spreadsheet is named “Ingredient By Meal’ and it lists the ingredients that are required for the family by each individual meal this week. I have also left on the aisle and aisle subsection in this spreadsheet for reference, but if you want to print that out you will need to alter the print area.

The third spreadsheet is named “Menu Plan” and is a modified version of the menu plan that I print and place on the fridge. I have a notes section, that I like to populate with any activities that are likely to impact the evening meal routine.

Want to see what we are having next week? Subscribe to my free email updates via the “subscribe page” or from the RSS Feed icon at the top of the page.

For more menu planning ideas head on over to Laura’s place at “I’m an Organizing Junkie“.

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What Is Mum’s Work Worth?

Firstly Happy Mother’s Day! I have had a wonderful morning so far and hope you have too. This year my birthday actually falls on Mother’s Day so I have been doubly spoilt.

If you have ever wondered how much you might earn, if being a mother was a paid job, go to Salary.com and use their Mom Salary Wizard.

Now I don’t really believe that you could ever put a true financial figure on mothering as there is so many subjective factors involved, not to mention the personal satisfaction and unconditional love that come as part of the job. But it is a bit of fun to calculate what your “mum work” would be worth in terms of market value.

According to Salary.Com the average stay at home mother would earn $124,000 ($US117,000) a year. They calculate the figures using the number of children in different age groups, paid work status and using 10 job titles that contain duties that a mum typically performs.

NB. There is also a Dad Salary Wizard as well.

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Free E-book - Planning With Kids Top 100 Tips, Volume 1

Firstly, apologies for my absence and if you have had difficulty accessing the site over the last week! I could write a diatribe here on the disaster that was my change in servers, but I am too excited about my e-book to want to spend time on negativity. Fingers crossed all is finally sorted on the technical front and I thank you for your patience and support over this time.

100th Post
To celebrate my 100th post, which is today, I have compiled 10 lists of 10 tips aimed at making family life simple and fun!

This e-book is the first collection of the most popular “10 Things” posts from Planning With Kids. These posts appeared on the blog between January and April 2008.

For each post I received feedback from readers and their thoughts on each topic. I have used this to improve the lists by adding some reader suggestions and removing some of my own points. To stick to only 10 points was a challenge some times, but I think you will find these lists helpful for organising yourself, managing the behavior of your children and having some fun together.

The e-book is splits into two different sections. The first gives you a one page print out of the list for that topic. I find it handy to have some of these lists strategically placed around the house for my reference.

The second section then details each point in the 10 point list and gives further tips, links and resources on that topic.

Planning With Kids Top 100 Tips

Topics included in the e-book are as follows:

1. 10 Things To Make Back To School Mornings Easier.
2. 10 Things We Do To Make Meal Time Enjoyable.
3. 10 Things I Like To Keep In My Everyday Bag.
4. 10 Circuit Breakers To Prevent Those Family Melt Down Moments!
5. 10 Strategies To Gain Co-Operation From A Toddler.
6. 10 Preschooler Early Learning Activities You Can Plan Into Your Day.
7. 10 Things To Do With The Kids When It Is Hot!
8. 10 Point Children’s Birthday Party Plan.
9. 10 Children’s Birthday Presents With A Difference.
10. 10 Quick Ways to Feed Unexpected Lovely Visitors

Why an E-book?
Reformatting the posts in this manner makes it easier to read as a series and to have as a reference tool. It also means that you can send it to family and friends who have not yet started to explore the blogoshpere.

10 Things Continues
I continue to write a new “10 Things” list every Tuesday. Drop by Planning With Kids again to see what the latest topics are.

I hope that you these lists are a useful tool for your family. I welcome any feedback either in the comments section here or via email to planningqueen [at] bigpond [dot] com .

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Menu Plan Monday - Seasonal Fruit and Vegetables for May

It is the start of a new month, so time to receive some inspiration for meals by which vegetables and fruit are in season.

The following fruits and vegetables listed below are at their best and cheapest this month in Victoria, Australia. These lists are for Australia, but if you live in the UK you can see what’s in season at Eat the Seasons UK and for North America Eat the Seasons US.

Fruits:
Apple, Banana, Grapefruit, Grapes, Kiwifruit, Watermelon, Figs, Lemon, Persimmons

Vegetables:
Beanshoots, Broccoli, Carrot, Cauliflower, Mushrooms, Potato, Pumpkin, Spring onion, Turnip

Taking inspiration from the vegetables in season, there will be a few soups and casseroles over the month of May! We also had the opportunity to buy locally grown pumpkins cheaply when we were in Mildura, which is always a bonus!

Monday: Spaghetti Bolognaise
Baking: Lemon Slice (Recipe Below)

Tuesday: Pumpkin Soup

Wednesday: Chicken Schnitzel and Vegetables

Thursday: Beef Stroganoff (Recipe Below)

Friday: Chicken Wings, Baked Potatoes and Corn on the cob

Saturday: Left Overs

Sunday: Tacos

Again, I have included the shopping list for this week’s menu plan as an excel file. The below paragraphs explain what is in the attached excel file below.

It contains three separate spreadsheets. The first is named “Complete Grocery’ and it lists by supermarket aisle all the ingredients that are needed to cook the family meals for this week.

The second spreadsheet is named “Ingredient By Meal’ and it lists the ingredients that are required for the family by each individual meal this week. I have also left on the aisle and aisle subsection in this spreadsheet for reference, but if you want to print that out you will need to alter the print area.

The third spreadsheet is named “Menu Plan” and is a modified version of the menu plan that I print and place on the fridge. I have a notes section, that I like to populate with any activities that are likely to impact the evening meal routine.

Shopping Lists

Any seasonally influenced meals in your family menu plan?

Want to see what we are having next week? Subscribe to my free email updates via the “subscribe page” or from the RSS Feed icon at the top of the page.

For more menu planning ideas head on over to Laura’s place at “I’m an Organizing Junkie“.

Beef Stroganoff (Slow Cooker Version)

Ingredients:
500 grams diced beef
2 tablespoons plain flour
2 tablespoons olive oil
1.5 teaspoons minced garlic
2 large potatoes, cubed 1cm x 1cm
3 large carrots, sliced thinly
1 cup beef stock
3 tablespoons tomato paste
300 mls sour cream

Instructions:

    (1). Toss the meat in flour. If the meat is in a plastic bag, I just add the flour to the bag and shake with some vigour.
    (2). Heat oil in frying pan and brown the meat.
    (3). Once browned, transfer meat to the slow cooker and then add all ingredients with the exception of the sour cream.
    (4). Place lid on and cook on Auto/Low for 8-10 hours or High for 4-5 hours.
    In the last 30 minutes add sour cream and stir in thoroughly.
    (5). Serve with rice or pasta.

Lemon Slice

There are many variations on how to make a lemon slice, but this is a very easy to make, child friendly recipe that I use.

Ingredients:
BASE
100 grams butter
approx ¾ can of condensed milk (this equates to 296.25 grams to be precise!)
1 teaspoon grated lemon rind
1 cup coconut
1 packet Marie biscuits

ICING
1 ½ cups icing sugar
¾ cup coconut
3 tablespoons lemon juice

Instructions:

    1. Crush biscuits until they are like a breadcrumb consistency. I put them in a plastic bag and crush using the wooden rolling pin and then pour into a medium sized bowl.
    2. Add coconut, and lemon rind to the biscuit mix.
    3. On a low heat melt butter and condensed milk.
    4. Pour the milk and butter into the biscuit mix.
    5. Press this mixture into a lined baking tray.
    6. Place into fridge for appox an hour (when in a jury, I have put it in the freezer for 15 minutes and this has also worked).
    7. To make the icing, mix all the ingredients together and then spread onto the set biscuit base. Refrigerate again until the icing has set.
    8. Once set cut the slice into fingers. Lemon slices keeps best in the fridge.

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A Newbie’s Lessons From Upgrading to Wordpress 2.5.1

For some, the upgrade to WordPress 2.5.1 has gone very smoothly, but unfortunately for me it did not go as well as planned. This was due in large part to my inexperience and I thought it might help other new bloggers if I shared my lessons learnt:

(1). Allow plenty of time without distractions.
I followed the steps in the detailed instructions. In hindsight I should have allocated myself more child free time to do this. I started the process in a child free environment and then as things went wrong and took much longer than anticipated, I had to stop and get dinner for the kids!

(2). Back ups are golden.
To correct the problems I was having, I had no choice but to reload the blog to its original state and start over again. If I had not backed up properly, I shudder to think what would have happened.

(3). Check theme compatibility.
This was the major source of my problems. I should have checked out WordPress Codex for a list of files which were compatible.

(4). Get rid of old themes and plug ins before starting.
I had a number of plugins in my directory that I wasn’t using and one that I was which was particularly big. (4.6MB!!!!) I also had more than one theme in my WordPress files.

As a consequence, the upgrade process took much, much longer than it should have. Had the process been smooth, this probably would not have been an issue, but because I had to do the upgrade process a couple of times before all was well, I wasted a LOT of time.

(5). I love blogging.
While I was spending so much time on the technical side of things, I wasn’t doing the stuff really enjoy. I missed participating on the discussion in the comments section of my blog, I missed reading and commenting on other blogs and also putting more time into my posts. So if I haven’t responded to you recently, when I get back from Mildura on Sunday I will be going through these outstanding items.

(6). Bloggers at Aussie Bloggers are dead set legends
I would have not known what to do to get things going on the blog without the help and guidance from bloggers in the forum. A very big thank you to Anonymum and Sephyroth.

I have learnt a great deal from this experience and in a perverse way, happy to have done the upgrade and worked it out. Things are still not perfect and I have got one or two things to work out, so you will still see a change or too!

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